December 17, 2024
Hi Friends,
Waiting is pea-picking hard, is it not?
We’re in Advent, the season of waiting and hoping and I fully affirm that it’s good to both wait and hope and also to wait in hope. Tim did a great job of talking about that this past Sunday.
But the character quality that allows us to wait wisely and well is just as hard to develop as generosity or controlling our tongue or loving the unlovable. Anyone can perform a selfless act on a one-off basis. That requires only a modicum of self discipline. But to do the selfless thing over and over again — even to train to do so — is very hard.
Imagine what it was like for Noah inside the ark as, week after week, he waited for an indication that the boat could be emptied (you could also imagine 40 days and nights of all that animal smell and excrement, which I’m sure added a sense of urgency to the waiting). We’re told that Joseph had to spend two more years in a dungeon while he waiting for the Pharoah’s cupbearer to remember him before his boss. Moses waited 80 years to find his calling and purpose in life. Saul couldn’t last past seven days of waiting before he made forbidden sacrifices. David waited for years, as a fugitive, before God’s plans for him were fulfilled. Israel had been waiting for about 400 years without a prophetic voice to guide them when angelic visits to Zechariah and Mary changed the silence into revelation.
But scripture is unrelenting. “Those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength.” “Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!” “Be still before the Lord, and wait patiently for him; do not fret over those who prosper in their way, over those who carry out evil devices.” “For God alone my soul waits in
silence; from him comes my salvation.” “I am weary with my crying; my throat is parched. My eyes grow dim with waiting for my God.” “Do not say, ‘I will repay evil’; wait for the Lord, and he will help you.” The disciples were waiting when the Spirit came upon them. The creation waits, longing for its redemption.
How do we learn to wait well? It takes faith. We develop our hope. We practice patience. We learn to see the bigger picture and live in light of its reality. And every step in the process involves self-denial, refusing to put ourselves in the place of God.
But our waiting is worth it! Let’s let Peter, who wasn’t the best at waiting, have the last word: “But, in accordance with his promise, we wait for new heavens and a new earth, where righteousness is at home. Therefore, beloved, while you are waiting for these things, strive to be found by him at peace, without spot or blemish; …”
Blessings!
Doug